????Pitfall no. 1 - A Lukewarm Goal
How do you make your goal 'Matter'?
When picking your goal, the trap is to make your goal BORING, non-stimulating.
Have you ever made an effort to gather images and ideas to make a nice collage to lift your mood and get you motivated to do better?
Did it ever work? For how long?
Surely by now, you know a vision board (bored) does not quite cut it unless it stirs something in you and even then it seems to disappear after a few weeks.
Life can help us with this one - By giving us such terrible circumstances that there is no other option than to make drastic changes fast. Health, relationships and Finance are life's biggest motivators.
Don't wait till change is fueled by fear only!
Attaching your values to finding your goal helps make them worthwhile and real.
Taking inspired action vs desperate action.
For that, we need to create the GAP needed to become curious.
We need to step OUT OF THE RACE to let good questions penetrate beyond our left brain (the calculated list maker - which comes in handy when we apply our steps to take).
Ask yourself these questions:
1. What is the most important thing in your life?
Start making a list of what matters to YOU.
What do you stand for, what do you love in yourself or others?
Learn the skills to Make your goal matter (literally)
To manifest an exceptional shift takes a little more. It takes becoming inspired by the possibility of achieving a goal you need to stretch for.
I hope this is easy, if not give me a shout and we can dive deep into what you came here to do.
We are usually motivated by what we no longer want or what we can not stand another day... what if that just brought you here to take action and actually you want to be YOU?
If it?s something that is most likely to happen when you just keep trotting on, doing the good work you do? well it?s not even going to trigger growing awesomeness in you, never mind exceptional results.
It surely will not get you out of bed, ready to create.
Procrastination kicks in when you make your goal too big, with no navigational skills, support or respite on the way to BEING GREAT. Feeling miserable all the way, as of course you are not there yet.
This is the first out of the 4 reasons which stop you from pursuing your mission.
If your goal is outside of any possible stretch for your ?NOW Perception? of what is possible, build islands (intermittent milestones) showing you are ferrying in the right direction.
Golden rule ?If you can hold it in your head, you can hold it in your hand.? famous quote by one of my mentors Bob Proctor whom I have been honoured to follow over 15 years now.
The distance is equal to the amount of limiting beliefs you have. Knowing what sabotages your growth really helps. That is what we can discover together and eliminate any obstacles for good.
Want to know the remaining 3 reasons why you keep sabotaging your growth?
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NEXT PITFALL...:
Trying too hard without energetically magnetising yourself, so your goal calls you in.
Chasing desire is a trap, learn why it's the fake bling that keeps you from the treasure.
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